If you’re new to the masturbation world, you might be wondering how to have sex with yourself The standard, lying on your back The good news is, there is no “wrong” or “right” way
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The basics boil down to this
Masturbation is about giving yourself permission to feel pleasure on your own terms, simply for yourself.
Sex with a partner and masturbation are totally different things, and pleasuring yourself doesn’t mean your partner is lacking or doing something wrong Masturbating is actually a great way to learn what feels good to you (and what doesn’t) so you can tell your partner about your preferences. Fill your mind with material to help you start to evaluate things like orientation and gender identity, the quality of your relationships, and your own wants and needs when it comes to sex and sexual partnership Do yourself a favor, though, and be selective with that media.
The way you have sex with yourself can reflect how you engage with pleasure with other people Sex with yourself involves you pleasuring your mind and body Having sex with yourself allows you to focus more on your own body and feelings without being caught up in someone else’s sexual agenda. Instead of trying to talk yourself out of stress, you’re using the body to speak directly to the brain
Focused sensory attention calms the amygdala (the brain's threat detector), reactivates the prefrontal cortex (your reasoning center), and stimulates the vagus nerve, which is the major pathway for shifting into the parasympathetic state.
Masturbation has numerous benefits, including releasing tension, reducing stress, lowering blood pressure, and improving sleep quality In this episode, we explore the seven best positions for men during solo sessions, offering new ways to satisfy your sex drive
