The only consolation i have is that i have been steadily promoted upwards, but it always just feels like a handout or something because i technically have seniority. If you are told you either quit or you are fired, from an unemployment standpoint, you aren't quitting of your own free will or you don't really have a choice Got fired without notice after being told that i have poor performance and they can tell i didn't want to be there
They aren't wrong on the second front, and i'm sure i could have improved, but i'm frustrated with two things
One, hr struggled to give me specifics on poor performance.
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It's sometimes immaturity in the boss, or it's a mental calculation about whether it's best to get you out the door vs Keep you in to train a replacement, but it happens all the time. I still have this unshakable feeling that i'm incompetent and not doing well, which may lead me to being fired I feel like i struggle to take in (and believe) the positive feedback.
I think its possibly because it's the highest paying job i've ever had and i feel i don't deserve it or maybe i'm genuinely messing up and don't fit in
It's not just the pay with this job either. I never feel threatened, or feel like i must do something i don't want to do, else feel the wrath of a toxic manager If you yourself see you're misfiring or making dumb mistake after dumb mistake, or if your decision making has been bad Sometimes, if your attendance has been spotty or if you've been late, you'll start to fabricate consequences in your head.
