Some demisexuals may feel very close to asexuality and experience attraction to extremely few people in their entire lifetimes, and each may take a very long time to develop, while others may find attraction. Sim, já tentei, já passei dos 20 anos, possuo experiência e tenho certeza disso The explanation i use is
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The difference between allosexuals and demisexuals is that allosexuals can choose to abstain from sexual relation/act on sexual attraction for the sake of knowing the partner better (this is for allosexuals who argue personality matters to them too)
Demisexuals however do not have any sexual attraction/sexual desires to hold back on or act upon
“experiencing sexual feelings and attraction only after developing a close emotional relationship and not on the basis of first impressions, physical characteristics, etc.” essentially, you only develop sexual attraction once you’ve gotten to know someone as a person People often say that you usually develop sexual feelings once you gotten to know someone. A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone In general, demisexuals are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender
However, when a demisexual is emotionally connected to someone else, the demisexual (may) experience (s) sexual attraction and desire, but only towards the specific person or persons. It does not describe the gender (s) you are attracted to So yes, you can be demisexual and bisexual (you can also be both demisexual and straight, or demisexual and gay, etc).